How to Believe in Yourself – No Matter What

How to Believe in Yourself – No Matter What

Neville Says

Life happens wherever you are, with whatever activity you're doing and whoever you're with...in this moment.

Your quality of life...
your happiness...
your joy...
depends on what you notice...
every...single...day.
It's a state of mind.

Gratitude helps you to see that life is good.

Worry is rooted in fear. It's simply a waste of time and energy.

That are you thinking?

Change your thoughts and you change your world. Norman Vincent Peale.

There is no such thing as failure, only different results brought about by your actions.
It's your belief that it's harder to be successful and easier to fail that keeps you from running from failure and struggling for success. George Lavenia, What You Think is What You Get.

He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure.
As he thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains.
A man is limited only by the thoughts which he chooses. James Allen, As A Man Thinketh

Gratitude and Trust

Something needs to change and it's probably me. (You control your own territory, Only you can change you.

I don't know how to do this but something inside me does.

I will learn from my mistakes but not defend them. (We carry around so much baggage.)

I will right the wrongs whenever possible.

Everything is a gift.


     Paul Williams and Tracey Johnson
     Book: Gratitude and Trust
     Super Soul Sunday

You Get to Keep the Miracle

Nothing that happens in your life is wasted.     

Be grateful for all the missteps.

You get to keep the miracle by giving it away.

Better to love than to be right.

You are not alone.

Thoughts become things.

     Paul Williams and Tracey Jackson
     Super Soul Sunday

How Were You Trained?

Great thinkers and great teachers ask great questions. You will never know more until you ask more.

Ignorance is brought about through assumptions.

Assumptions assault your intelligence.

You have to be trained to be stupid. We are trained not to think.

     Bishop T.D. Jakes

It Just Is

When you ignore or bypass the law, you will reap the consequences. It's not emotional or personal, it's cause and effect. If you smoke, you will have health issues. If you overeat, you will be overweight. If you speed, you will get a ticket or have an accident. If you do this, that will happen. The law of cause and effect. No emotion. It just is.

It's All an Illusion

Time is an illusion. So is space.

There are no close calls, near misses, or almosts in life, no matter how close or near they seem.

     Mike Dooley

Problem? What Problem?

Your problem has already been solved, you just haven't gotten to that point in time yet.

     Sue Moses

The Past is Over

Don't dwell on the past. It draws your attention away from all that's happening in the present.

Seek not to fix or change others, especially when they've hurt you. Instead create as much space as possible within which to heal, be distracted, and fill your life with new friends, ideas and adventures.

Life is part of an unending adventure.

     Mike Dooley

You create your reality

Forgiveness is only necessary when first there is blame. The second lie needs the first lie. Withdraw the blame and forgiveness becomes a moot point.

To cast blame means to not understand that you create your reality.

     Mike Dooley

GPS metaphor

Most of us know how GPS devices work in our cars getting us from one location to another. Apply this analogy to achieving your dreams.

1. Give the device your destination (end result). Because it already knows where you are, as soon as you give it your destination, the GPS knows how to get you there--in the shortest, quickest, happiest route. But notice, the GPS doesn't start talking to you until you--

2. Put your car in gear (and roll). If you don't put your car in gear, it's basically telling the system where you want to go and then not letting it take you there. That's a giant contradiction. It's the same in life when you have dreams you don't consistently act on.

DREAMS

Dreams have a very difficult time coming true if they're dependent upon:

1. Specific path (the cursed "hows")
2. Specific people (the cursed "whos")
3. Specific details.

Your dreams are yours for a reason: to make them come true. 

The Universe knows the details which is none of your business.


All you need do is:

1. Define what you want in terms of the end result.
2. Show up, every day, moving in the direction of your dream.

Live in the NOW

Live in the NOW. Don't get stuck in the past or the worry of the future. Dwelling in the past or the future is the cause of stress. All you have is NOW. Remember the past is gone forever and the future never arrives because when the future gets here, it become NOW. Ever notice that sometimes the things you were contemplating in the future never show up at all or at least not as bad as you were thinking.

You are not your thoughts. You make a choice to worry.

Put yourself in position for good things to happen.

2015-New Beginnings

Be clear about your intention and the Universe will rise up to meet you wherever you are.

You are responsible for your own life. You're the one you've been waiting for.

Luck is preparation meeting the moment of opportunity.

The Universe speaks to us first in whispers.

We are more than we appear to be.

      Oprah


Success is always intentional.

       T.D. Jakes