You are responsible for your own life. Every choice produces a consequence. When the consequences seem out of line with your expectations, it's because you are thinking one thing but intending another. Oprah
Whatever your situation is right now, you played a major role in setting it up. You create your circumstances. If you are stuck in your life and want to move forward, start by examining your past motivations.
See, feel and taste that you can be in control of your life.
Stop living by default and start living by design.