Dreams have a very difficult time coming true if they're dependent upon:
1. Specific path (the cursed "hows")
2. Specific people (the cursed "whos")
3. Specific details.
Your dreams are yours for a reason: to make them come true.
The Universe knows the details which is none of your business.
All you need do is:
1. Define what you want in terms of the end result.
2. Show up, every day, moving in the direction of your dream.