Guess what? You may need to qualify the people in your life. May sound strange but take a look at the people in your life. Are they happy people, full of life, always with a smile? Or do they bring doom and gloom, storm clouds with lightning and thunder, never have a kind or good word to say, always complaining? It's your life, your theater so you decide where people sit. (You may have to refuse entrance to a few people. Oh well.)
Everyone can’t be in your front row!
Life is a theater – invite your audience carefully. Not everyone is spiritually healthy and mature to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.
It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you LET GO, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships/fellowships.
Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention to: which ones give and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have DRAMA or don’t really understand, know and appreciate you and the gift that lies within you?
The more you seek growth, peace of mind, love and truth, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
You cannot change the people around you…but you can change the people you are around! Ask God for Godly wisdom and discernment and choose wisely the people who sit in the front row of your life.